One thought away

JSK...good morning,

A husband & wife, boyfriend & girlfriend, father & daughter, mother & son, friends, uncles, aunts, grandparents, cousins....are all strong all relationships but like any relationship are only as strong as the level of communication. The way we talk to one another builds our relationship, can make it stronger yet that one minute we are off, may cause everything to slowly fall apart.

Everyone talks about how good or effective communication is very important, but do we really practice good communication all the time. But what really is effective communication? I believe it starts with actually hearing what the other person has to say from their perspective. For example, in an argument, one should try and understand what the other person is saying why they believe what they are saying is right before saying something in response.

There should never be a breakdown in communication. Generally in families after an argument or discussion or fight people stop talking even if it is a very small matter.
Some don't talk for hours, some days and some years. However, the ironic part is each one is waiting for the other to speak first.. as both of them think that other person is wrong and they both keep waiting.

Harmony in Hindi har is defeat and mani is mine, my defeat. So next time even if you had a big argument remember its fine. Nothing wrong in that and sometimes necessary for one to express their feelings. But if you want to build a beautiful relationship please be the first one to speak for at the other end he or she is anxiously waiting and to to start a beautiful communication, its only one thought away.

Take care
Love ya
Nima