past

jsk,

we have the habit on dwelling on our past. we are so involved in not letting our past go, that we lose hold on our future.
we need to learn to live in the PRESENT.
my husband and I hardly have an argument and if we do the next minute he'll ask me where his glasses are? I'll search around to find them and give it to him. my son will look at me and ask "mom, aren't you mad at dad?" I was mad at him a moment ago, and we literally forget we were arguing.

instead of spending time on dwelling or arguing about the problem, express each others issues and spend time on the solution.
today, let's forget about why they said this or that and just enjoy the day.

take care
love ya
nima